Life On Lisburn

Trick or treat night here and sometimes I think my heart won’t ever get over the break every time Jamesey doesn’t do the typical.  He doesn’t care about candy.  He doesn’t care about the dressing up.  He only wanted to ride in the stroller.  I suppose there is a part of me that’s grateful - some children can’t even tolerate that.  There’s also the fact that his 2 year old brother has surpassed Jamesey in ability and skills (at this point but hope says Jamesey May catch up yet.  Be faithful in prayer...). It’s not fair.  It’s not what I pictured.  Not what I planned for.  I am a planner - I like things to be ordered and to be fair and to work out as I think is deserved.  But, someone who sees more than me is writing our stories.  He’s the divine author, Creator of our dreams and our sorrows.  But, it’s trick or treat night, and D and Anna had so much fun.  It was sweet to see them together with our friends.  To see the...

Last night the rascals and I decided an epic outing was in order since Daddy was at a show.  So, Chick Fil-A it would be.  What I never expected happened in the play area.  I've never thought twice about having to urge my kids to play, but Jamesey plays differently.  This time he proved me wrong.  He's never shown much interest in the play area but last night my heart celebrated as he explored! He appreciated the texture of the floor, he checked out the slide and the steps and the toddler zone (always darting back to me for hugs).  His hands were always moving, he had such a smile on his face and the giggles -oh, the giggles!!! It was a delight to watch - it also changed my perspective on watching Anna and D play.  It was beautiful to watch kids just BE! It was such a reminder for me that I often underestimate what J is capable of.  He just does things on his own time frame and we don't know what his limits will be, and I need to stop assuming lim...